
Why is going on a first date one of the most dreaded things in the world for me?!?! I swear when I meet people and they just love going on first dates, I think that they are aliens or have completely lost their minds!
I went on a date tonight with a guy that I met on eharmony.....oh you didn't know? Yes, I'm on eharmony, I'm the multiple dating site girl. Wow, when I think of the fairy tale way I was going to meet my prince charming, I sometimes can't believe that it's now through a dating site. haha. Oh well, it's the age of technology, right?
So I'd been e-mailing back and forth with this guy for a few weeks when we finally decided to meet up. We decided to meet at a coffee shop in Minneapolis, which I chose. I dont' know why I chose this place either, I knew nothing about it...momentary lapse in judgement I guess. P.S. Don't choose a coffee date at 8pm on a weekday because when you drink coffee that late your all hopped up on caffine and can't sleep...hence this post at almost midnight.
Anyways, in true girl fashion, I was going to be a little late. I mean really the ackwardness of a first date, and all the things that run through your head...I dont' want to be the one to get there first and then have him come find me, but then I dont' want to be searching through a crowd of people looking like a dork trying to find this person. Then do we hug when we meet or handshake, should I offer to pay, or will he....blah blah blah. Seriously, these thoughts made me nervous enough that before I left I needed to have a quick drink to take the edge off a bit. It's that you get so nervous you could vomit. haha, sounds glamorous, huh?!? Seriously, dating is nuts! I don't know how people do it multiple times, it exhausts me! All you people out there that only had a to go on a few first dates...you don't know how lucky you are!
Anyways, I couldnt' find a parking spot so I ended up being 15 min late. I apologized and we continued to grab coffee and talk for a good hour and a 1/2. The place was closing so we got up and left. Ackward moment #2: the end of the date. Do you hug? Shake hands? Well I went in for the hug...sometimes you just gotta stop thinking and do it, the more you think about it the more ackward it is. So who knows if there will be a second date, I'm not very good at reading people....hopefully there is, he was cute and we had a good conversation....we'll see! Second dates are always much better...most of the ackwardness is gone.
I think one day I will invent a nice little pill you can take before a date that makes the ackwardness and nerves go away....now wouldn't that be nice!
I hope you all had a great week :)